We see the fame. We hear the hits. We admire the fashion and the stage presence. But behind the spotlight, Tiwa Savage reminds us that even dreams come with a price.
In a recent interview with Afrobeats Intelligence, Tiwa opened up about something deeply personal — her son, Jamal, and why she wouldn’t want him to walk the same path she did.
The rate of success is very slim,” she said.
“And even if you succeed, staying there is a battle on its own
She spoke from a place of love, not limitation. Because sometimes, choosing peace over pressure is the real win. She’s lived the life most people fantasize about, but she knows the emotional, mental, and financial toll the music industry can take — especially on someone still figuring out who they are.
Tiwa shared how difficult it’s been to separate work from home, especially during the lockdown. With a studio right in her house, she found herself awake at 2 a.m., immersed in music, but missing out on time with her son.
“I couldn’t separate work from home. And I didn’t like that,” she admitted.
She wanted to be present. Not just as an artist, but as a mother.
And in those reflections, we see something powerful — a reminder that success isn’t always about the stage. Sometimes it’s about choosing what truly matters. Being able to say: This dream may be big, but it doesn’t have to be yours.
She also spoke about being boxed into labels — like “African Rihanna” — and how many doubted her sound when she mixed R&B with Afrobeats. But she kept going. Because strength isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s quiet. Consistent. Faithful to its own voice.
For Anyone Feeling Torn Between Ambition and Peace
Tiwa’s story reminds us that success isn’t just about applause. It’s about alignment.
Whatever path you’re on — make sure it feels right, not just loud.
